Girls, there is nothing wrong with desiring a more youthful man.We live in the 21st-century, and long gone are the days of traditional, pre-arranged marriages and keeping with the status quo.Modern times have given rise to young men dating and even marrying older woman, as well as women seeking younger, more buoyant guys.Do Not Lose Your Sense of Humor .Just because you are a little older, you do not have to lose touch with your humorous and occasionally funny side.Young men are almost always attracted to this.Taking random road trips, engaging in a little risqu activity, and just having that overall active and carefree attitude (in moderation, mind you-you do have some responsibilities in your life) will not only get him in taking more of a liking to you, but you to him as well.Take Caution, Lest Your Heart Be Broke .Courting a younger man, naturally, has the benefits of freshness, spontaneity, and a sort-of return to younger years.Take heed though, a younger man is more prone to leave you.This is especially true if he wants to start a biological family up and you are in well-into your 40's.Another reason is being that some young men are notorious for hopping from bed-to-bed and going through partners more often than they change their boxers.Just be careful.One More Caveat, and Then To the Goodies-I Promise!This relates pretty directly to the above point.Even if the two of you seem to be inseparable, have many things in common, and have an even better than-stellar bedroom experience, you must try at all costs to resist getting too emotionally attached to your stud.We are talking at least a year at that.Young men are very fickle, and us women are known to mature sooner than men.Your Girl Friends' Opinions Do Not Matter .I may get in trouble for this one.However, it is your life and you will do what makes you happy, right? Your girlfriends will probably try to convince you out of it-I have experienced this myself.They will more-or-less use the points that I mentioned in the last two sections.Do not buy it.More often than not, they are simply jealous because you have the that young, smart, handsome guy.Think Tank Tops and Tight Jeans .Get rid of the long dresses, conservative blouses, and "granny" bras and underwear.Yes, I went there.Bring the tank tops and tight-butt jeans.Halter tops and short mini-skirts will drive them goo-goo ga-ga, for lack of a better expression.Wait, though! Before you dash to dig in the bottom of your closet or speed down to the mall, do you remember that word "moderation" I spoke of? Good.Everything in moderation! Do not go as far as to make yourself look neither easy nor slutty--bad, bad idea.Keep Those Abs and Hips in Shape .This one is probably blatantly obvious; however, it bears repeating.Youthful men practically foam at the mouth when it comes to a woman with a cute face and great body.Watch out for the slobber, yikes!! You probably do not, however, have Claudia Shiffer's body and never will.You can, though, stay in great shape through a great diet and staying active/exercising.Remember, He Is Not Entirely Yours .So you have seduced that sexy young guy.Good, you are on the way girl.Taking into account everything else I have said here, be mature and sensible enough to know that he is going to want to go out with his guy friends and have guy time.This means keep the jealousy to yourself, lest you want push him away.
0 comments:
Post a Comment