Used to be that 20 years ago that for a young man to be interested in an older woman, people thought he must be "hard up." Nowadays, there is still some residual judgment and bias where people think and whisper to each other, "Well, you know, he must be after only one thing.".But the truth is one of the hottest current trends in dating is Cougar Dating wherein younger men are pursuing older women.If you're a younger man and you are attracted to the confidence, maturity, and fun of an older woman, here are 3 smooth, suave, and sophisticated dating tips for you to attract, pursue, and date older women.Tip #1.Do Be Smooth. Go Where The Fish Are.Where do older women congregate? Are older women really at the same singles bars as the 20 something girls? In some cases, yes, they are.In Silicon Valley, Los Angeles, and Manhattan, you will find the sexy successful business executive women rubbing elbows while downing the Chardonnay, Mojitos, Cosmos, or Margaritas together with the 20 somethings just out of college.And while singles bars are fun, they really can be a mad house.Where else could you try? When you want to stand out and not be one of many other single men in the crowd, go to the gym or YMCA classes that women love and attend en masse.There are always more women in the group classes at the gym because studies demonstrate that women are very tribal and socializers.Take a yoga class.Tip #2.Do Be Suave. Do Move In When You First Meet and Be Low Key.Now the thing is, while it is a hot new dating trend for younger men to date older women, frankly, not every 40+ year old is thinking that way.You might need to woo her a little bit about the idea.Be a man and do approach her.She will respect your masculinity for this.However, be a bit more covert.Be low key in your exchange, and her defenses will go down.At the end of the class just warmly strike up conversations with the other women.Be smooth and suave here.Just strike up a conversation.Don't immediately push to get her phone number.Just say at the end, "I've really enjoyed talking with you.I hope to see you next week.I'll definitely be back again.".Tip #3.Do Be Sophisticated. Invite Her Out with You at Your Second Meeting.At your second conversation, she will be more comfortable with you.That's when you could suggest, "Hey, I haven't had my coffee yet, and gotta get some java.Would you like to join me for a cup of coffee around the corner before you head out?".You show your confident sophistication knowing that she is busy.It is also a compliment to her."You're beautiful.You're successful.You must be busy.".By doing that, subtly and smoothly you just let her know it would be brief.That way there is no pressure for too much of anything right away.You're just looking to get to know her a bit better in a romantic way.She will feel more comfortable with you this way which increases your chances of romantic pursuit success your with dating older women.
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