Finding the perfect birthday gift for your woman, without any help from her or any hints from her, is hard.You are clueless and you don't know what to give her.But there are ways to find out what gift she might like in her birthday without asking her.Well it is important that you listen closer in the months leading up to her birthday.If you go out shopping and you hear her saying how much she likes something, then make a mental note of it and go back for it.Or you may hear her uttering about some other gifts as you go around and as I say make sure you listen because you will get two lots of brownie points that way.One for listening and secondly for having the initiative to go and get it for her birthday.However it is very rare that we get that lucky when it comes to her birthday, she normally keeps things hidden from us not on purpose.Girls normally go out shopping with girlfriends and this makes things difficult for you.Now obviously we know our girlfriends preferences when it comes to perfume and jewellery.Buying jewellery or perfume is all well and good.Why not go for the jugular and go out there and sweep her off her feet with the best gift imaginable, at least this is the thought I get every year and then I end up buying jewellery and perfume.If you can think of the absolute present for your girl there is no end to the rewards you will get for the next couple of months.For example why not take on a hot air balloon ride? Or have dancing lessons and then on her birthday take her out dancing, not all presents have to be material or expensive, sometimes the thought that goes behind something is the most important thing.And the idea of romance in a gift leads to a much better reception than buying a $500 worth.And it also proves that you know her intimately enough to know what she would want and what she would appreciate more.For some reason several women don't like being embarrassed at work when it comes to being sent flowers.So it is probably best to steer clear of any minefield here, it has something to do with the embarrassment and the extra attention that they don't really want.Just give them the attention when they are at home and make sure that the present you have got will stand up as being good enough so you may not have to worry about next year's birthday gift quite so much.
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