Wednesday, July 11, 2012
Dating Younger Women - How to Date a Younger Woman As an Older Man
Dating Younger women has its own pros and cons.If you're an older guy (I'm 28 and I've dated hot chicks as young as 19-21), or if you're one of my friends who are on the over 30's and 40's, then you probably already know the pros.Pros..They're great arm candy and a "reminder" that you still got it - I'm not quite there yet, but I've dated some tall, really hot chicks who know how to swagger.It's really en ego boost if you think about it.They're easy to be led - Most younger women are easy to lead and ask to do things.If you're a guy dating a younger girl you know what I'm talking about.When one of my clients had one she cleaned the house, cooked the food, and hey gave him a lot of sex on random times of the day.All at the push of his command button.Cons..They can be immature and erratic - as an older man you SHOULD NOT try to give advice to a younger woman.Remember that most of her episodes of immaturity are just natural, and you should just lend an ear and let it be.Going against it or providing advice will not help the cause and she might even get mad at you for it.Just tell her "hey, you'll get by, I believe in you." and that's it.Some younger women may be dating other men - if you're playing the field, well then realize that she might be too, especially if she's young and hot.If you're the jealous type, don't get into this arena.But understand that she has more access to guys.Hey, it's okay.If you're reading this guide and checking out my main site you'll have more women to date.Either way, if you're an all-out player like myself, then you'd still go for it.Here's how..Younger Women are on the hunt.Keep this in mind.Younger women, at the earlier stages of their adult life, are HUNGRY.They are hungry for activities, dating more men, and learning more about the world.When you adopt this mentality you'll be dating MORE younger women at one time versus concentrating on one.Let me repeat. Date more younger women and not one.Younger Women are all about fun.Adopt a part of your identity that is goofy, fun, and comfortable under your own skin.You don't want to look tight and too "above" younger women by appearing like a square.Now, even if you ARE a square then the cool thing is that you can surprise her every now and then by letting loose and goofing off.When you show women a surprise dimension like that, they tend to appreciate it because they can see you're trying.It is also imperative that you keep up with pop culture.If you don't know what Jersey Shore is then you need some brushing up.Younger women "connect" with men heavily on this level.It's not even being funny or humorous or being flirty, but just knowing whats "in" in their world counts.What I usually do is I look at Facebook and see what's in the know, and just relay it back to the women.Women are also about fun activities.Instead of suggesting dinner as a date, I suggest that you do more RANDOM things, like an out of town road trip out of the blue, or surprise midnight movie premiere, or a wine tasting weekend.Anything that's totally fun, random, and unstructured really hits hard on younger women.Younger Women want to be lead.I cannot stress this enough.You must lead lead and lead.Don't ask her what she wants to do next.99.99% of the time they have NO GAME PLAN when it comes to dates or events.Being the older guy who has more connections, you can set the dates on time and make it convenient for her.Just tell her to show up at X time and X place.If she flakes out for some reason don't get mad.Younger women are erratic, remember? But what matters is that you don't throw the power to her court.Younger Women do not have any solid core values installed.Try going to a quiet spot with her, where there are few distractions, like walking near a shore, or hanging out at your place having some drinks, and SHARE your core beliefs, life goals, and all that.INSPIRE HER.Don't say your dreams sarcastically.You must fascinate her with your plans.Older men tend to downplay this and do not put any energy into talking about themselves.Do the opposite.She's a dreamer and so if you show her you are too.It's high relatability and that's VERY ATTRACTIVE.Okay, these are very good tips that ACTUALLY WORK - from my experience of several years and hundreds of my clients.Email me or visit my site for more good stuff on attraction and I promise you results will keep happening to you.
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